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Alternate Sexuality, bdsm, D/s, Destiny, Libby's Thoughts, Life, Musings, Reflections, Sexuality
In the world of BDSM and D/s there is a lot of talk of Limits. Hard Limits, Boundaries, Parameters … no matter what word we use to describe our own Line In The Sand, we are all conveying to our Top the same thing: Do not go beyond this point … and we use Safewords to let our Top know we are nearing or have reached our Limit.
Simple enough, yes?
No.
Safewords NEVER made sense to me …
And my Limits … Are OUR limits and they
Are for my Top to decide;
His Love and Respect keep me safe, emotionally and physically …
We talk, a lot. He knows me and I trust that He would never cause me harm; to tell Him He cannot do something would only belie the trust we have placed in each other – He knows when I can take no more and He often saves me from myself because I would go on forever just to please Him.
It is a lot more complicated, beautiful and wonderful than Limits will allow …
And the sweet girl in the painting above, also looks like this:
